• General,  Personal

    Today is brought to you by the letter T.

    Turmoil. Turbulence. Tumult. You know those days and weeks where you feel like you’re drowning? I feel like that. There’s a lot of things going on in my life at the moment that I have no control over which is…

  • Dating

    One woman’s reply to dating trolls

    Instagram or tumblr This lady has me in tears sometimes with her replies to men approaching her on dating sites by replying to their crude messages with pictures she draws of them objectifying them back. Follow her for endless giggles…

  • Memories,  Tattoo,  Travel

    My forever Austin – in ink.

    After the failed “date” with the man who baptised me in his mouth after I told him I won’t suck his dick, I was starting to think that Austin was possibly a place I didn’t want to extend my stay…

  • BDSM

    What do you mean, no?

    The other night on my epic 10 hour drive from Lismore back to Sydney Loki kept me company on the phone. Well. If you call his sick whining and my baiting him a conversation. I do, I was getting much…

  • Books

    Tampa – half a review

    Only half because I can’t bring myself to finish the book in one sitting. I’ve only gotten half way because I need to take extended breaks due to the chilling vomit inducing subject matter in this book. Why? Well, let’s…

  • Feminism

    Sexual objectification in the weird way…

    As you all are aware, I wrote a note about why I loved sexual objectification in my personal life and why it made me so hot. Well, last week I saw this picture in the newspapers: And to be honest,…

  • crafts

    New blogs!

    A friend has started a new blog and I know some of you are interested in the crafty – I’m also on there so will be posting about my projects and often might cross-post. However anyone wanting to add us…

  • BDSM,  Sexuality

    Consensual non-consent & rape.

    **Trigger warning: Sexual assault & rape discussion below** During my time on FetLife I’ve come across so many many women referring to some of their fantasies as rape fantasy instead of consensual non-consent. It’s not the same thing. It’s a pet peeve of…