• General

    Quick update & happy new year!

    Gosh it feels like an age since I’ve written anything. Amongst getting kidnapped to Cern’s place for about 4 days last week and having a quiet christmas and now an open house NYE party at home today I’ve not had…

  • Dating

    Stop Drinking Poison

    I keep coming back to this post that SeattlePolyChick wrote on resentment and us having control over how we react to partners unintentionally hurting us. Or just hurting us in general. When I grow up I would love to have…

  • Kinky Q & A

    Kinky Q & A – #2

    It’s that time of week again, y’all!!! First question being from Stereowhite: What is the proper way to spank a woman and how would you tell other men to do it? Hmmm I did do a post recently about The…

  • Dating,  Personal,  Sexuality

    Sex Accidents: I hurt what?! !!!!

    You know those times you are busy fucking so hard, so fast and so often that you feel that your gentials are constantly entangled and may not survive being separated for long periods of time? I’m pretty sure that’s where…

  • Kinky Q & A

    Kinky Q & A #1

    From my boobalicious Goaty: What candles are best to use when playing with hot wax? To start with, let’s go into a bit of what wax play entails. Candles usually. A lot more people are using soy wax candles these…

  • Dating,  Relationships

    When the world feels secure again.

    You know, the last 4 weeks have been an emotional turmoil for me on a lot of different fronts. For the first time in a long time, I woke up this morning feeling settled. Centred. Whole. Watch out for my…

  • General

    The Feminist Killjoy Gift Guide

    If you’re ever in doubt as to what to buy me… I’m going to start sending people here. Like that tea pot with “male tears” written on the side. I think I’m in love…

  • BDSM

    Kinky Q & A – It’s official!

    As I put out the other day, I’m going full steam ahead with the kinky question and answer that I will be doing once a week. For anyone wanting to take part, you can either leave a comment on the…