• Relationships

    He chose me?

    I’m sitting on a train back to civilisation from Cern’s place reading Amanda Palmer’s book “The Art of Asking” when I came across a paragraph that made me stop and look out the window in contemplation. Then it made me…

  • BDSM,  Kinky Q & A

    Kinky Q & A – #3

    I know it’s been a while since I did this, but I got caught up with life and Cern and well, lots of Cern. And let’s be honest, the guy is pretty amazing to be caught up in. He makes…

  • Relationships

    The interconnection of poly and jealousy

    Well as you all know, Cern and I are now primary partners. Which, logically, should mean that I’m secure enough in us that everyone else doesn’t matter… But sometimes that’s just not true. Which leads me into a discussion I…

  • Blogging

    Very Inspiring Blogger Award

    I got another sparkly y’all!! This time thanks go to the lovely lass at Divorced & SingleĀ – so thank you for the nomination dearling! I’m absolutely beside myself with glee. Here are the rules of the Inspiring Blogger Award: The…

  • Feminism,  GLBTQI

    Breasts – a public entitlement rant.

    I have boobs. The hyperlink here is to my other rant on objectification by random strangers on OKC if you wanted to read about me going off my chops in a different kind of way. Yes, yes I do. They…

  • General

    The lurgy

    I’m sorry guys, I really do want to finish up my story with Cern for you, however I got his sickness that he had over xmas and am now slowly dying. Even if he’s told me I’m not allowed to.…