• Personal

    Insanity. Instability. And love.

    This week was meant to be court week. The week where we got to finally have our say and put the arsehole who raped my friend behind bars. Or at least deported out of the country. But it’s been postponed.…

  • Books

    Vale, Sir Pratchett. Vale.

    Today I got the news from Cern via a phone call that he heard on the news that Terry Pratchett had passed away over night. My heart sank. He is┬ámy favourite author of all time. His way with words were…

  • Blogging

    Migration to self hosted

    I did it. I finally went to my own server because I love the control I get over my blog more than I love WordPress.com. Who knew? That my little submissive was a control freak! Hah! So if you used…

  • Sexuality

    Sex Toys: Bad Dragon

    Cern, bless his cotton socks, has introduced me to things that I had no idea existed. I know I know, shocking right?! Now for those of you like me who had no idea what Bad Dragon was until it was…

  • Personal,  Relationships

    Lemonade can kiss my zest.

    I’ve avoided writing anything deep and meaningful here for a while now. Mostly because the developments with Cern I sometimes like to hoard to myself for the warm fuzzies before I share with others. And the rest, well, mainly because…