• Relationships

    Poly trials and new discoveries

    Well you guys know that I’ve been seeing¬†Cern, the new FWB. I’ve also been in contact with Scotty a lot over the last week – about the upcoming Vegas trip next year, Burning Man and my accommodation for both. So…

  • Personal,  Relationships

    Sex and vulnerability – missing pieces.

    I’ve had some interesting conversations of late with someone whose input I’ve come to love for the differences in our perspectives and the way we approach things. Some experience, some insight and a different perspective have brought into clarification something…

  • Relationships

    Scotty : The low down

    I spent this morning connecting with all my men that were overseas. My best friend always and sometimes lover, J and Scotty. So based on that I thought I should go into details about things I may have omitted before.…

  • Relationships

    Sex: The awkward spreadsheets

    Here I was reading my paper and enjoying my soup when I came across this article¬†– it’s about a spreadsheet that a husband made of all the times his wife said no to sex with the excuses written next to…

  • Personal,  Relationships

    Endings and new beginnings

    So Loki and I called it quits yesterday. I’m somehow not heartbroken over this. Maybe I knew it just wasn’t going to work deep down. I’m not sure, but all I can say is that I’m actually feeling positive. He’s…

  • Personal,  Relationships

    How do you choose your partner?

    You know, trailing through the interwebs today I came across an interesting article. About how we end up marrying the wrong people. The article goes into very many points and I thought I would go through them in my way.…

  • Personal,  Relationships

    LDR: Dirty talking assistance. Part 1.

    Forgive me WP gods, it’s been 9 days since my last confession. There’s a reason for this, I’ve been a bit hormonal introspective in regards to relationships, our efforts and where you draw the line in regards to giving. In…